I'm almost 25 years old and on a daily basis my mid wanders to the realm of if you don't sort your shit out now you will never be happy.
I tell myself that I can't live my life fully if i'm always hating on myself so I need hurry up, figure it out, stop thinking this way.
Its hard to remind ourselves sometimes that it's not a quick fix, we may be down and out and feeling completely crappy but not only is a quick fix not an option its probably not going to help us in the long run.
We have to take it one step, one day at a time
'Loving yourself... it really does take a daily practice' - Ru Paul
We all have things we need to work on in our lives and whether that be personal development, career, relationships, fitness, well being, the list goes on... We all know that there is a way to get ahead and you may not know how that might be able to happen right at this very moment but you can learn, read a book, read a blog, watch a youtube video.
There is so much information out there on all of the things you might be struggling with, you just have to take the first step to finding it and then progressing...
ONE DAY AT A TIME.
Now I don't think for myself personally there is an ending to my journey, my journey is an ongoing process that I will have to work on every day for the rest of my life, and that is the choice I've made, I've made it one of my highest priorities and I feel better everyday when I know I've done the things that make me feel better and do better.
'Make no mistake our radical self love journey does not happen in a day learning to love yourself is one of the biggest challenges we will ever face and the work is never finished it is a continual ongoing process' - Gala Darling
If you are also beating yourself up for not getting anywhere, or not being better right now remember that if you take action and make steps toward your final goal you will get there and no it may not be right at this very moment but perseverance is key.
Also remember that we all have days where we slip up, take a step backward or don't take a step at all but that doesn't mean you have to give up, never give up because if you do you'll have to start all the way from the beginning again and any progress you've made will be lost.
We are in this together, this is why I write about these things its not to drone on about all the shit I'm going through it's to create an environment a community where we can support each other no matter where we are at in our journeys or what journey we are on.
So please share with me your struggles, share with me your progress lets communicate via email, in the comments below, on Facebook or Instagram!
Looking forward to hearing from you,