Or should we fake it till we make it?
My insecurities more often than not get the best of me yet I refuse to let anyone know it... although lets be honest people can probably tell by my body language, my awkward conversation and jokes how I am really feeling.
This is what I consider faking it till I make it, but in reality my insecurities aren't going any where no matter how much I put on the brave face and push them to the back of my mind they're never fully gone, they've just been stored in another part of my brain, how is this even helpful to myself?
And as I said before the more I try to mask my true feelings the more they probably stand out to the people around me. So is there any point in my efforts of disguise?
Am I supposed to flaunt my insecurities? or is hiding them more appropriate?
I guess I am no expert and I am living my life as each day comes so its still all a learning process for me.
Putting on a brave face does often help me get through whatever task, or activity I need to get done but I more often than not still walk away thinking oh wow what a dick i've just made of myself.
My struggle I guess is learning how to make the brave face actually seem brave and not forced, and maybe this is something we all just learn over time?
Maybe we just get better at 'the brave face' I guess we all have to start somewhere? haha!
Do you ever struggle faking it till you make it? Or are you amazing at faking it.. if so send through your tips I obviously need them!